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July 6 • 2017 13 jn about getting a job, doing some- thing creative or scientific. We are blessed that he has the happy gene," says Vicki, who noticed that with Alzheimer's he became more light- hearted and affectionate. "Many people don't know how to treat the elderly as intelligent people." Vicki and Devlin share responsi- bility for Manny, who is never left alone — only occasionally do they rely on outside caregivers. Vicki has cut back on her work as owner of Ta-Dah Productions, which presents fashion shows and other special events for businesses and hospitals. In 2013, Vicki enrolled Manny in the Dorothy & Peter Brown Jewish Community Adult Day Care Program, which The program provides social connections and cognitive stimulation for participants with memory loss, says social worker Dorothy Moon. During the few days a week that Manny attended, he was "delightful and full of life," she says. "His sense of humor and wit were always there — and he appreciated women." Last year, a group of Brown Center participants joined Manny's 100th birthday celebration at a party at the Somerset Collection Food Court, organized by Vicki. The pair's relationship made a special impression on Moon. "Her connection with him was so heart- warming," she says. "She engaged him and didn't treat him like some- one with memory problems, and he was affectionate with her." Manny will turn 101 on July 15. Now he is frail and spends most of his time in bed. However, says Vicki, "he has an appetite, has the will to live and is always positive." He doesn't remember much but he recognizes Vicki and expresses gratitude for her care. She urges people embarking on the care of an elderly relative to have a positive outlook. "It's not the end of either of your worlds. I've always looked at is as a fun adventure. Every day is a new experience, but in a fun, light-hearted way," she says. "I hope that my son and his kids will recognize this." The experience, Vicki says, has allowed her to "see the possibilities of getting old and still being young." • Manny and Vicki Lois Haron Allied Member ASID 248.851.6989 Complete kitchen and bathroom remodeling as well as furniture design and installations including granite, wood and other materials. DESIGNS IN DECORATOR WOOD & LAMINATES, LTD. It Doesn't Have To Cost A Fortune… Only Look Like It! 2168010 Serving Our Community For Over 45 Years! 5FMFHSBQI3Et4PVUIýFMEt XXXHMBTTNBOHFOFTJTDPN Jeff Stewart Assistant New Car Sales Manager Serving the Community Since 1969 248-636-2736 Glassman Genesis Valet Service Complimentary Maintenance The Paint Store 248-745-3100 Full Line Paint Store 1001 Orchard Lake Rd. Pontiac, MI 48341 www.thepaintstoremi.com Decorator Assistance Come and check us out! Conveniently located at the corner of Orchard Lake and Old Telegraph Rd. Benjamin Moore Paint Starting as low as $15.83 per gallon FREE Brush and Roller with purchase of a gallon of paint. Limit 4 per person.